October 8, 2004
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Thou shalt not covet?
1) How do you feel when someone else is attracted to your bf/gf?
Some people might get overprotective and/or jealous, perhaps out of fear of losing their bf/gf to this third party. Others might feel a sense of pride in that others find their mate as attractive as they do. Personally, it's the latter for me. The way I look at it, if someone else finds my girlfriend attractive and I end up losing her to him, then either I wasn't a worthy enough boyfriend and lost to a better man, or the girl wasn't worth keeping anyways.
Relationships are built on trust and you should be able to trust that your bf/gf is going to be faithful to you, regardless of the attention/affections they may receive from another.
2) Do you find people with bf/gf's more attractive?
I'm sure most guys will agree with me on this when I say "when it rains, it pours". When a guy is single, it seems like it's harder for him to garner attention from females but when he's taken, it's the opposite. Now that's not to say that these females are suddenly giving him attention because they want him. Maybe because he has a gf, he's less of a threat and you can confide in him and get a guy's perspective on a subject.
From what I've heard from girls, they say that guys with gf's tend to be more confident, and it's that quality that might make them more appealing.
If the above is true, I'm sure there ARE females out there who have no problems pursuing a guy with a gf. Guys on the other hand, I don't know of a single one that would intentionally go for a girl that had a bf.
Discuss.
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Comments (33)
you know how i feel about this subject.
i feel flattered when ppl find the guy i'm dating attractive.
ryc: no, i have no idea what that means. i'm guessing a fling/rebound?
Dood, this entry sucks Dave. This gives me no hope whatsoever. If this is true then I better start pretending like I have one. Did these girls say that having more than one girlfriend makes them even more attractive? Does that increase the chances of hooking up? If so, Choiii better start pretending hes got 10 gfs.
it takes 2 to tango and 3 to DP. living it up!!!!
I like it when guys sweat my gf's. I am less attracted to girls that have bf's already because it's just more work and not worth it to begin with.
the way one feels about another can't be helped. you can't help but be a tad jealous. i think it's just human nature. but i'm confident and trust paco enough that one/two person's feelings towards him won't affect our relationship.
i'm flattered until he or she steps over the line. that's bf and 3rd party included.
guys who like other guys gf's are losers. girls who like other girls' bfs are normal.
it's like chris rock said, guys will say "i need to find a woman like that", a woman will say " i want him".
1. it would be the latter for me, tho i'll admit my insecurities do get affected a bit
2. i've heard the same thing about the confident factor...and i know of single guys that went for girls who had a bf, but the intention was purely carnal...
i know alot of guys that go for girls with b/fs. what you said about a guy gettin more attention when he has a girl.. well the same for girls. for me anyway.
i know LOTS of guys that have pursued a girl with a boyfriend. (i've actually gone out with one before too -_-;;)...so it's not just girls.
in my personal opinion, guys/girls with gfs are off limits. i hate homewreckers.
to ur first question, i'm always flattered when chics think my bf is good looking.
generally rule of thumb....out of respect for other women, you shouldn't touch another woman's man, if you know them or not. That's just wrong and just shows a characteristic about someone that will be portrayed throughout the relationship.
oh yea watching is no problem... we've done it at random bars.. asian parties... etc.
actually my last bf had a gf when i first met him. i was gonna stay away from him once i heard but a close friend of his gf told me how terribly she treated him. u should've heard all these stories, it got me furious so i stole him away. it's only happened once and i would never do it again. it's just wrong. i mean shit, i dont even date more than one person at a time
Hmmm... interesting. Well, it all depends on how far they take that attraction. If some dude is hounding all over my girlfriend, you can be sure that I will stab him in the heart with the end of a broken beer bottle. But if the dude likes her and is respectful of my relationship, then all is cool.
Plus it also depends on how my girlfriend would take the actions of the third party. If she reciprocates, then she's getting the boot with hopes that the door doesn't hit her in the ass on the way out. Sorry Charlie~ but in my book thats like cheating. If she is respectful of our relationship, the she earns max cool points thus deeping the relationship.
As for girlfriend with me... since no woman shows any remote attraction to me, she will never suffer from this problem.
Yeah, I'm a jealous hater... so what... at least I'm an honest one (^_~)
LOL
1) Let's BOX!!!
2) These girls have this 5th sense: they can sense the "pootang" that you had recently...thus the attraction.
mmm, jealousy is normal. but paranoia isn't. trust is good. some girls take pride in taking away another woman's man. it's an ego thing. as for the guys, they usually don't cross the line. at least from what i know.
I personally think it's cool to have other guys jock my girl. It does make me feel kinda good. haha....
but you gotta make sure your girl knows that you still care for her. i always told her that i trust her 100% so i never got jealous around her. she thought that it was because i didn't care for her. her insecurities or my flaw? hmm
1) I don't get jealous if someone has interest in my guy. It's a compliment. And I know he's faithful to me..so what is the big deal? haha...Besides, if he goes for her, then obviously he wasn't for me..and I'll truly wish them happiness and bid him farewell.
More people are attracted to you(male or female) when in a relationship because people show radiance...confidence..through their happiness.
1. I tend to be a little jealous/overprotective but I still trust my bf. It's more that if other girls know that I'm with him then they shouldn't be trying to flirt or pick him up.
2. I think people tend to be more attractive if they have a bf/gf because of the confidence issue.
But I think you're wrong though...in my experience I know more guys who would pursue a girl with a bf than girls who would pursue a guy with a gf.
yeah i never understood why people get mad and/or jealous when other people are attracted to their sig. other. if anything you should be flattered and take it as a compliment. i guess some people are just insecure..? i know for sure that other girls are attracted to my bf but that doesn't bother me at all. not only is it a given cuz he's very good looking, but it also lets me know that i still got the mojo!
i dun find guys with gf attractive..makes me look of them not as a guy..
why ..i dunno..mebbe cause im not with them..lol j/k
if I want him, doesn't matter he has gf or not, as long as he has no wife, gf come and go, no?
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I agree with hello_wendy, well kinda. My problem lately is that guys with girlfriends are the only ones who show interest in me. If they are always calling me and persuing me then isnt it their fault and not mine if something happens between us? I do try to keep away from these guys, but sometimes in my lonley desperateness, I will find myself not caring about my values.
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you're pretty clever.
im attracted to the person not to the fact they're taken.. some people are like that but not me. And yea, I do agree with you on many points. Either you didn't measure up or your significant other didn't measure up.
1. I think it's hilarious.. and then I go home and fuck him with more zeal..muhahah..
2. No.
when you trust your partner 100% and confident bout yourself, then you won't be jealous when you find out other ppl are attractive to your partner. maybe itz even kinda fun, how bout threesome??!! hahahha
i definitely have to agree to an extent. guys with gf tend to "be themselves" moreso than guys without gfs. because guys without gfs more often than most tend to "try too hard" than be themselves. guys with gfs already have their security and confidence, making them easier to approach/talk to or for some girls, more "attractive".
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